It may be that youâve sat at the same desk for a decade, eaten lunch with the same colleagues and taken that same commute to the office for just a little too long. Itâs true that weâre living and working for longer than ever before. And with that comes fresh expectations around our identities in the workplace. Retirement may still seem a long way off, and we want to fill those working hours with fun and fulfilment, by making a difference and finding paths to new ways of working.
Perhaps itâs that you canât help dreaming of all those lives you once imagined for yourself â as a scuba instructor in the Bahamas, sheep-shearer in the Highlands, or running a chateaux B&B in the south of France. Luckily, the notion of a midlife career change is no longer an anomaly but a strategic pivot for many. Enter a growing demographic of mid-career individuals who are reimagining their professional trajectories, proving that itâs never too late to pursue passion, purpose, and growth.
, Professor of Organisational Behaviour at LBS and acclaimed author of , shares her unconventional strategies for navigating a successful midlife career transition.
Embrace an explorer mindset
We live in a time where thereâs a lot of disruption in our careers. Few career paths are linear, and organisation shapeshift, too. On top of that, weâre living longer, which means we have time for multiple re-inventions during our lifetime. This question of âWhat do I do next? Am I in the right place, doing the right thing?â is very salient for a lot of people, at all ages.
Adaptability is a cornerstone of successful midlife career transitions. You might lose your job and your sense of professional identity. Then thereâs this huge void. Thatâs hard. Embrace a mindset, which allows freedom to explore diverse pathways and possibilities. Rather than adhering to a rigid plan, be open to surprising discoveries and unexpected opportunities that may arise along the way.
There are two approaches, as I see it: 1) âPlan and Implementâ â you start out with the answer then you follow the steps. This is the conventional approach and it works quite well when you do know what you want, or youâre earlier on in your career. 2) The less conventional approach that Iâve found tends to happen when people make midlife career changes, is called âExperiment and Learnâ. This is for people who know what they ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât want, but ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât yet know what they do want instead. We tend to pigeonhole ourselves â Iâm not creative or entrepreneurial. You can find out about things by accident.
The way that enfolds is you start to envision what I call âpossible selvesâ. These are ideas about who you may become in the future. Donât be afraid to make the list long and divergent, as itâs through exploration and experimentation that youâll uncover your true passions and potentials. Start by brainstorming a wide range of possibilities, from conventional roles to entrepreneurial ventures to creative pursuits. Do you want to take the next step or do you not? Ask yourself two questions: Is this an attractive option? Is this feasible in terms of my need to make a living?
After that, take small, strategic steps towards your goals. Whether itâs taking courses or starting side projects, each action contributes to your discovery and career reinvention. Embrace the process of learning and growth, recognising that setbacks and challenges are integral parts of the journey.
Experiment with purpose
As you embark on your midlife career transition, experiment with purpose. Play around with the things that youâre interested in to see what direction to take next. Begin by delving into your interests and passions, whether theyâre hobbies, side projects or areas of curiosity. Take the time to play around with different possibilities and avenues, allowing yourself the freedom to discover new opportunities that resonate with your values and aspirations.
On top of that, be open to serendipitous discoveries along the way. While itâs essential to have a general direction in mind, ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât limit yourself by preconceived notions or rigid plans. Embrace the unexpected and be receptive to opportunities that may arise unexpectedly. Whether itâs attending unusual networking events, volunteering to gain new knowledge, or exploring exciting hobbies that youâve always wanted to try, each experience contributes to your journey of career reinvention.
People have all kinds of ideas in their heads of what they like and ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât like, and often, they ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât check out in reality. Try things as actively as you can before making any big leap, as we ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât really know whether we would enjoy these things or not. All we know really well is what we ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât like about our current job. Exploring and experimenting is really vital.
Remember, the key to doing this in the context of a career transition is to strike a balance between exploration and intentionality. While itâs crucial to explore a wide range of possibilities, itâs equally important to reflect on your experiences and discern patterns and themes that resonate with your authentic self. By aligning your explorations with your core values and aspirations, you can pave the way for a fulfilling and purpose-driven midlife career transition.
Cultivate diverse networks
Networking plays a crucial role in navigating midlife career changes. Reach out to your contacts and start right away â people hesitate, as they feel nervous or unsure, so they tell themselves, âIâll sound confused so might blow a good contact or not make a good impressionâ. However, if you ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât start, youâre not going to figure it out. Most people ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât realise how many conversations it takes, how many coffees, how many times reaching out on LinkedIn.
The more people you talk to, the more confident youâll feel about the possibility for change. Youâll get encouragement and more ideas. Start, reach out, be honest. You may say, Iâm exploring the possibility of change and looking at different options. Iâm trying to brainstorm some possibilities. Later, you may say, Iâm really interested in this sector, and trying to figure out which way to position myself. After that, it may be, Iâm trying to get a foot in this door. The magic is, Iâd like your help, Iâd like your input, Iâd like to hear your story.
Be proactive in reaching out and building relationships with potential mentors, peers, and collaborators. But ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât limit yourself to your immediate circle; instead, embrace the power of âweaker tiesâ â casual acquaintances who may offer fresh insights and opportunities. Youâll gain access to valuable resources, support and perspectives that can enrich your career transition journey.
Don’t listen to the naysayers
Some people will think itâs courageous to make a career move in later life. Some people will think youâre crazy, especially those closest to you, if youâre voluntarily leaving a role thatâs well-paid and stable. Almost everyone you speak to will download their own hopes and wishes and fears onto you.
Talking it out a lot really helps. Ask yourself â âWhat am I feeling, thinking, experiencing right now and how do I want to feel in the future?â Itâs really important to talk to your partner â âHow do we foresee our future together? What does this mean for where we live? Might we have to move house or change our lifestyle? Are we still in sync about our fundamental values and vision for the future?â If you can have those difficult and challenging conversations, that will make things easier.
But ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât put all your fears and anxieties on your partner! Itâs great if theyâre supportive, but ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât pile it on or the relationship can suffer. Understand that itâs tough for them. Youâre going to be confused, and âping-pongingâ between old and new ideas â and it makes it hard on them as they have âskin in the gameâ, so itâs really important to reach out to other people in some way, shape or form.
Make wise decisions
What helps people make the wisest decisions? Itâs the head and the heart working together. Some of the worst decisions are when we go for the job that looks perfect on paper but all your internal radars are going âding ding dingâ. Slow down, and ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât take the early opportunities, which may be when you feel most pressured or desperate. Give yourself permission to wait a little longer until you find the job that really captures your imagination. Buy yourself time if necessary. Do advisory work, or act as a consultant or freelancer. Itâs important to take the opportunity to find out what you really want.
The hardest may be when you have more than one option to choose between. Ask yourself, will it take me one stepping stone further towards where Iâm trying to go? The decision to leave an existing role can be tough. Most people ťĺ´Ç˛Ôât make that decision without having something in place that theyâve been developing over time. Itâs still hard, but there comes a time where you say, âThis nascent thing is never going to have a chance unless I give it my all nowâ. But itâs also important to have enough indicators that itâs viable. You mustnât burn your bridges.
Any change is going to be tough â you have to be prepared for that. Itâs hard to find a new self whilst working flat-out at an existing job. Some people manage it by taking sabbaticals, whether paid or unpaid. Some people take an executive course that gets them out of the office and gives them time to regain that âoomphâ. In that transition period, youâre holding onto something and youâre also trying to let go of your old self and develop your new self. It can be deeply uncomfortable.
Develop your own story
As you embark on your journey of midlife career transition, itâs crucial to craft and articulate your own narrative. In times of change, knowing how to frame your story becomes essential. One practical tip is to rehearse what you want to convey about yourself and practice consistently.
We often underestimate the challenge of telling our own story. Despite thinking we know ourselves well, articulating our experiences and aspirations can prove challenging. Transition periods further complicate this process as we navigate uncertainty about the future. However, with practice, we can refine our storytelling skills and present a compelling narrative to others.
The key lies in developing a succinct headline â a clear and sharp statement of a desired, possible future. Avoid rambling or providing unnecessary historical details; instead, focus on delivering a concise message that captures attention and leaves a lasting impression. By honing your storytelling abilities, youâll be better equipped to navigate networking situations and engage others effectively.
Moreover, the process of crafting your story offers valuable insights into your career aspirations and goals. Through reflection and practice, youâll gain clarity about the environments and opportunities that energise you. This newfound clarity enables you to refine your search criteria and pursue opportunities that align with your interests and values.
Remember, developing your story isnât about endless experimentation without direction. Instead, itâs about refining your narrative and gaining clarity about your professional objectives. By investing time and effort into this process, youâll emerge with a compelling story that resonates with others and guides your career transition journey with purpose and clarity.
Don’t retire, reinvent!
In conclusion, embarking on a midlife career change requires courage, curiosity, and a willingness to embrace reinvention. By following these tips and drawing inspiration from Herminia Ibarraâs insights, you can navigate this transformative journey with confidence and clarity. Itâs never too late to pursue your passions, redefine your professional identity, and embark on a path of learning and growth.
is Professor of Organisational Behaviour and Charles Handy Chair in Organisational Behaviour at London Business School.